Once there were two brothers who
were great friends and always played together. However, one day they had a huge
argument about one of their toys. In the end, they decided that from then on
they would only be allowed to play with their own individual toys.
They had so many toys and things
that they agreed to spend the next day sorting out which toy belonged to whom.
So the next day each brother got to work, making a pile of his own things. When
they had finished doing the big toys it was time to sort the little stuff.
However, they had already taken so long that it was time for bed, so they left
the small toys for the next day. The same thing happened the next day, because
they had started dividing up parts of the house.
Day after day it was the same
story. They were spending their whole time deciding what, among all kinds of
things, belonged to either one of them.
Anything would set them off: seeing an animal, a tree, or even a stone. In the end, they had accumulated two complete mountains of stuff which had to be kept out in front of the house.
As the years passed, nothing
changed: every morning they would meet up to argue about which things belonged
to whom. They were getting older, and everyone now knew them as "the
grumpy old men". No one had ever seen them smile.
That was, until one morning they
went out and found that their two mountains of stuff had been totally mixed up
together. Someone had been there, mixing their things up! After all that time
and effort they had spent to separate everything!
Furious, the brothers tried to
find who had done it. Soon they found a pair of children playing on the other
side of the mountains of stuff. They were happily playing together, picking
everything up, careless of whether they were mixing it all together. They
looked really happy, enjoying themselves to the max.
Seeing the children so happy, the
two grumpy old brothers realised how foolish they had been for so many years.
They had given up playing with anything, instead spending their whole lives
arguing over what was theirs to play with. How sad they felt, for spending
their lives in anger. At the same time, though, they were happy to have finally
realised their foolishness.
They spent that day, and the rest
of their days, playing together with those two children, mixing everything up,
and sharing it all. People even stopped calling them the grumpy old men. Now
people called them the 'Big Kids'.
If we spend more time worrying
about what is ours, instead of sharing and using it, we all lose out.
Yes, it is absolutely true. If we spend whole of our life in thinking what belong to us and do not share with others, we will lose it some day. Same as given in Spiritual books. Life is not about just what we own, it is about what we own and share to make others happy. We should always be thankful to God to whatever we have and should cherish every moment.
ReplyDeleteMoharaj ji’s saying-: “By constant thinking about the faults of others,our intellect gradually gets contaminated by these faults.”
ReplyDeleteSo when we feel the presence of negativity ,immediately we should be cautious, think it in a positive way(this is God’s wish) and take our mind towards God & Guru,automatically negative side will be weak.
By continuous attachment in Satsang
we can learn how to control the mind in a negative situation.
How the old grumpy men change into small kids?
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