Teary Tidu was a boy with a
special ability: he could make himself cry in less than a second. If he
disliked something, or things became difficult, or someone contradicted him, Teary
Tidu would not hesitate to put on a pitiful face and set great big tears running
down his cheeks. In this way he managed to get practically everything he
wanted, because no one could resist the pity inspired by his tearful little
face.
But one day, Teary Tidu met Pipo.
Pipo was asking people in the street for some change, in return for him helping
them in any way he could. Pipo was very poor; he had no home and no family, so
he made a living however he could. Even so, Pipo always had the biggest of
smiles on his face.
Tidu took to Pipo, so he decided to help him
out in making some money. He went over next to Pipo, took off his hat, put it
face-up on the ground, and started crying with the most pitiful of expressions.
Instant success! In a few
minutes, Tidu’s hat was full of coins
and sweets, but when Tidu offered all
this to Pipo, Pipo declined.
-“I prefer deserving what I
receive,”
answered Pipo with his usual
smile,
-“It’s much more fun making an
effort to get things. You know what? Today I’ve washed a dog, I’ve collected
hundreds of nails with a magnet, tidied a wardrobe full of paintings,
accompanied a blind old lady to the park.. maybe I haven’t gotten everything
I’ve wanted, but I’ve done a load of interesting things. And how about you? How
have things been for you?”
Teary Tidu didn’t answer; he just
walked sadly away. Tidu had gotten
everything he wanted, but he’d done practically nothing of interest the whole
day. He hadn’t even enjoyed himself, what with spending almost all his time
crying.
That evening, having returned
home, Tidu requested a delicious cake
for his supper. When his mother said no, Tidu tried to cry but, remembering Pipo and
how joyful he was, and seeing his own reflection in the mirror, Tidu couldn’t do it. Instead, he asked himself
how could use the situation to do something interesting.
So he tried to get the cake in
some other way. To the joy and surprise of his parents, Tidu spent the whole evening helping his
mother to tidy and label the pantry, water the plants and organise the library
books.
In the end there was no cake. But
that wasn’t so bad, because Tidu discovered
it had been much more fun doing all those things that evening rather than just
sitting crying to get a piece of cake that, in the end, wouldn’t have been
worth it.
Children who cry to get what they
want are missing out on a lot of great stuff.
Bhakti yoga is the path of devotion to attain God.
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